Holy Advice
My newly ordained cousin-priest probably got my love life info from a waft of holy wind.
Suddenly, after conducting a private mass at their home, he approached me and teased me about having a boyfriend. He was just right on timing, actually. 'Cuz the whole time he was doing mass, I was only thinking of one thing--- Honey. His younger sister, who is close to me, had answered for me saying that I don't have one currently but my last ex is now in a spiritual journey.
And there goes the can of worms. He asked which congregation and said that the guy ought not to be contacting me since he already is in an advanced level of his vocation. Asked me if he was serious, I said yes. Says that I should stop responding if I do mean well and help him focus on his new life. Ouch.
His advice stuck me. If only they knew that we are still actively communicating.
I don't know what this means, really. I don't know why I keep hanging on like this when there's absolutely no assurance of anything...Oh God, please help. (seriously)